A Friend in Need (30)

A Friend in Need (30)

As Tayo’s Best Man, I was responsible for organizing the wedding reception. All hands had been on deck for the planning. Mrs Okafor had been very supportive, both morally and financially. Debby helped with the decorations of both the church and the hall to be used for the reception. Once or twice it had crossed my mind and I’d wondered if it would have been proper for Tolani to attend Tayo’s wedding if her studies had not taken her out of the country.

As I sat there in the church, I engaged my mind with thoughts of all that was to happen afterwards. I’d given certain instructions to the manager of the event centre we were to use. I silently prayed that all things would go as planned.

“Now, we proceed to the ceremony.” The voice of the officiating minister jolted me back to consciousness.

“Omotayo Matthew, do you take Omowumi Maria whose right hand you now hold, to be your lawfully wedded wife? And solemnly promise, God helping you, that you will be a true and devoted husband to her? That you will love her even as Christ loves the church, and honour, cherish, protect and care for her for the rest of your life? And you will keep yourself to her, and to her alone, until God by death separates you?”

I watched closely as Tayo took a deep breath before responding: “I do.” Flashes of cameras sprayed over him. Tayo continued with his vow facing Maria, “I, Omotayo Matthew, according to the word of God leave my father and my mother and join myself to you, to be a husband to you. I promise to love you dearly and to care for you with all my strength; from this moment forward, we shall be one.” The congregation roared with ‘Amen’ and jammed their hands in several rounds of applause.

After they calmed down, the minister turned to Maria and asked, “Omowumi Maria, do you take Omotayo Matthew whose right hand you now hold, to be your lawfully wedded husband? And solemnly promise, God helping you, that you will be a true and devoted wife to him? That you will submit yourself to him as unto the Lord, showing reverence to him as the head of this union? That you will love, honour, cherish and comfort him for the rest of your life? And you will keep yourself to him, and to him alone, until God be death separates you?”

With a beautiful beaming smile, Maria answered, “I do.” Looking Tayo right in the face, she continued, “I, Omowumi Maria, according to the word of God, submit myself to you, to be a wife, a confidant, and a worthy partner to you; from this moment forward, we shall be one.” Another resounding ‘Amen’ echoed through the auditorium.

The minister concluded the ceremony by pronouncing them husband and wife. Quoting from the Scriptures, he added, “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” After the rendition of the choir, a short exhortation followed as the preacher emphasized the importance of building their homes on Christ: “Any union that is not founded on Christ’s love cannot last. No marriage can survive on infatuation or lust; you need true love. And, as a proof of your genuine love for each other, you must be patient with yourselves and ready to work; love is hard work.”

Turning to the congregation, the preacher exhorted them to ‘fall in love with Jesus’ so that He would be there to guide them in making the right choices in life. “If you establish a relationship with God, He will be there to direct you when the time comes to have a marital relationship. He also heals broken homes and mends broken hearts.” He concluded by inviting people to surrender their lives to God and have fellowship with Him and His people.

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We moved from the church to the event centre for the entertainment of guests. There was plenty of food and drinks. Friends and family felicitated with the newly wedded couple and sang special songs to wish them well, while they also brought their gift items forward. I and the Best Lady, Mercy, helped the couple receive their gifts. In a flash, my eyes caught the label on a particular gift on Mercy’s side which was addressed to Mr and Mrs Adekunle, ‘with love from Mrs Tolani Victoria Olawale.’ Could it be the same Tolani? At first, I thought the first name was just a coincidence, but the second name, Victoria, made me doubt that it was a mere conincidence. Tolani’s second name was Victoria, though her last name was Abayomi.

If it was her, could it mean that she was now married? Was she back from the states? Did she bring the gift by herself or she sent someone? I looked round to see if I would see her around. I didn’t want to raise any alarm, so I didn’t ask anyone. My eyes scanned the whole hall over and over again but she was not in sight. I decided not to mention anything to anyone about my observation until the ceremony was over.

At the close of it all, the Master of Ceremony invited the groom to give his vote of thanks. Tayo thanked everyone—family, friends, well-wishers. Then he turned to me and thanked me specially. He spoke so fondly of me to everyone to the extent that I was almost moved to tears. As he was about to return the microphone, I told him I had an announcement to make. He handed me the microphone and took his seat.

I signalled the event planner and the lights went off. A cold silence filled the dark hall. After about 10 seconds, Mozart’s ‘Elvira Madigan’ Paino Concerto II began to play softly in the background. A spotlight beamed on me on the high table where I stood and followed me as I stepped off from behind the table and went towards where the guests were seated. John was right beside me with his camera to record every step I took.

Another spotlight focused on a table to reveal Debby in her gorgeousness. I had asked that her table be set in the front of the hall. Just when I almost reached the table, I remembered something, turned, and went back to the high table. “Maria, please I need to borrow your bouquet.” I whispered. She gave it to me without delay and I headed back to Debby’s table. She was seated like a queen, blushing like a winter-rose. Mrs Okafor, seated on the other side of the table, winked me a smile as I crouched on one knee, holding the bouquet towards Debby.

“The first time I set my eyes on you,” I began, “There was a connection I could not explain. It has taken me days, weeks and months of observation, meditation and prayer to understand this mystery…” Occasionally, I paused to catch my breath. Her eyes grew misty but I continued. “My heart has been captured by your—” I was saying when a tear that she’d been struggling to hold back rolled freely down her left cheek. I paused, removed a serviette paper from the pack on the table and handed it to her. With trembling hands, she collected it but could not dry her eyes. I watched as another teardrop rolled down her right cheek. I couldn’t tell if her tears were tears joy or of pity that I came too late, but I shrugged off the thought as proceeded.

“I, Daniel Oluwafemi, love you from the depth of my heart… I cannot continue to hide my feelings for you.” Stretching the bouquet towards her, I asked, “Deborah Ogechi, will you marry me?”

I was sweating from the heat of the spotlight on me, and so was she. She sniffed loudly and dried her face. I could feel all the eyes in the hall focused on us. Debby stood to her feet, collected the microphone and the bouquet from my hands, and, between sobs, said the most romantic word I’d ever heard, “Yes!”



Thank you for following the series till the end. I hope you enjoyed it. I’m grateful for the encouragements, likes, comments, and shares. Please, drop in the ‘comment box’ your opinions and/or questions, and the lessons you learnt from this story. You can also send them to me via any of the following media. 

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John Ogunjimi



  1. YES!!! I’m seriously blushing for Debbie… I love the romantic ending. Hmmm, I’ve always loved Femi’s personality. Congrats to the newly weds “Mr & Mrs Adekunle” and I’m also happy for Tolani…. What a brilliant, fantastic and happy ending!
    Kudos, kudos, kudos all the way, John. But I wish the story wouldn’t end now… Anyways, lemme just hope and wait for another one to begin *smiles…*

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  2. At last! A Friend in Need came to a wonderful conclusion…
    Ever since its commencement, I have followed every series with keen interest, looking forward to the ending….
    I have learnt love, patience, forgiveness, power of prayer, lending a helping hand……
    I have been taught that one is vulnerable to mistakes, therefore, when this happens, we should not lose hope but pray ourselves out of such error… I have also seen the importance of the Holy Spirit’s leading in our lives.. So, we should learn to listen to and obey Him….
    In short, I learnt a lot….
    I appreciate your effort sir in writing the story… I admire your style of writing especially, the ability to paint the story so real that some people doubted if it was really fictional….
    I ask for more grace and inspiration for you from above…
    I am looking forward to another wonderful story written by you – John Kehinde Ogunjimi

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  3. Awesome story. Am blessed and encouraged by it. You are really a blessed writer and i pray that God Almighty continue to bless you with insights, may you never be discouraged with this gift cos you have no idea how many lives has been saved through your writing. God bless you brother John

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